I was originally asked to write about my trip to Pakistan for Steps to Follow , a passionate blog about the love of traveling. I am also posting it to Moti Muslim but for anyone looking for a good read and a trip around the world from the comfort of your home, visit Steps to Follow, you won’t regret it!
Next month it will have been one year since my family and I broke the bank to make our hearts a little richer. Okay, a lot richer! But that’s what travel does, isn’t it? And it’s even better when you go to a place with hundreds of years of family history. For us, that was Pakistan.
My sister and I were born and raised in Canada but Pakistan always had a place in our home. Our parents are Pakistani and they surrounded us with the same food, movies, language, and clothes that they grew up with back in Peshawar and Lahore. I have never been more grateful for this upbringing than I was when we landed at the airport. It was like entering a whole new ocean, one that I had only dipped my finger into and was now swimming in. Actually, almost drowning!
I had seen Pakistan through pictures and videos before but being there in person was nothing like I expected. It was crowded everywhere we went. I hated this at first but after a week or so you get so accustomed to it that you start to flow with the rest of the crowd. At first glance, the cities look so cramped you wonder how people get around. But then when you really start to look, you see stunning beauty in the architecture, in the ingenious habits of people maneuvering their way around the city. The real beauty is that there are gems hidden (and not so hidden) everywhere in these places; if you blink you might miss them. There were mosques, gates, and houses, all of them with unique touches of colour and embellishments. Not one building looks the same.
Speaking of unique touches, I can tell you one thing for sure: Pakistanis take their weddings seriously! We were fortunate enough to be invited to a wedding during our time there and we were blown away by the halls. In one city, most of the wedding halls were on one strip!! You just drive and drive and drive past hall after hall after hall. The parking lots are huge! Everyone’s dressed to the nines, and you feel like you’re at the Oscars. We accidentally entered the wrong hall for a few minutes (I’m really hoping this happens often with all those halls to choose from!) so we got to see the inside of two halls. The designs were breathtaking. The ceilings had me drooling and snapping pictures every half second (all while trying not to seem too awkward after realizing we didn’t know anyone there).
Due to this being a family-oriented trip, I can’t really say our focus was on sightseeing. It was more like seeing whatever sights you can on the way to every cousin’s, aunt’s, and grandparent’s house. I honestly wouldn’t have it any other way. In addition to learning a bit about the country’s history, I also learned about how each place held my family’s memories. I saw places where they played, where bought their groceries and clothes at, where they used to go to school. I think I saw Pakistan more clearly through their eyes than my own. During these drives around the country though, we had cute little surprises pop up, such as this little guy:
Apparently they can be very dangerous and bite but this one was so cute and tame! I’m guessing he/she loves tangerines because it ate four of them in two minutes!
Another cool experience was when we got to experience a free rickshaw ride! The driver had lovely old Bollywood music playing on the radio and that combined with the beautiful weather made the whole experience dream-like.
The one uncompromising item on my to-do list was to see a peacock and it I’m so grateful it happened! The best part was that my grandmother’s house had them as pets, meaning I got to stare at them for as long as I wanted. I think I made them and my family uncomfortable at one point. But they are fascinatingly beautiful creatures!
Another item on my to-do list was to visit and pray in Badshahi Mosque in Lahore. Another check! Badshahi Mosque was completed in 1673 and is the second largest in Pakistan, with a capacity of 100,000. Just imagine how spacious it is! Walking around in this breathtaking mosque was an experience I will remember forever. I felt the serenity deep in my bones. The beautiful call to prayer resounds throughout the halls and carries you away. I could’ve spent weeks there if they allowed overnight guests haha.
Yet another cool experience was walking around Lahore Fort. Actually, the way to Badshahi Mosque is through Lahore Fort. One of my favourite parts of the Fort was the Diwan-e-Khas (Hall of Special Audience). I was told this hall and one other was used for royal audiences; standing there in the middle of it, I couldn’t help but wish to have been a fly on the wall during that time.
Another favourite was Sheesh Mahal (The Palace of Mirrors) and I’m sure you can guess by the name why it stands out for me. Cool fact about the Sheesh Mahal: it was constructed by Emperor Shah Jahan, the same guy who built the Taj Mahal! Pretty neat eh? This monument has a mirror mosaic and although it has faded over time, you can still see the beauty of it to this day.
If you recall, I mentioned that Badshahi Mosque was the second largest mosque in Pakistan. Now onto the first! Faisal Mosque is located in the city of Islamabad, near the Himalayas. It used to be the largest mosque in the world! Altogether it has a capacity of 274,000. Can you just imagine what a full house would look like? When we visited, we were just a few minutes shy of attending congregational prayers and almost missed seeing the inside because they lock up afterwards. Luckily my lovely cousin begged the guard to let us in since we had come all the way from Canada so he had mercy on us and snuck us in. We prayed in an empty alcove with the most beautiful lush red carpet. In the end I was glad to have missed the crowd because it was an incredible experience to be the only ones in an area so quiet, you can almost hear yourself blink.
Last but not least, we saw another palace called Noor Mahal in the city of Bahawalpur. It was modeled off of an Italian chateau so it was neat to see architecture like this in the midst of the previous designs I have included here. I didn’t get many pictures inside as I was having too much fun goofing off with all my cousins but I can tell you that it was nice enough to be used for a wedding photo shoot! We saw a newly married couple getting their pictures taken there and it was stunning.
Overall, this adventure was so epic that it’s still fresh in my mind; I could swear it was just last week that we were eating a hot and fresh paratha every morning, meeting long-lost relatives every afternoon, and accidentally knocking over bikers with our car doors. Not only did this trip open my eyes to a new way of living, it opened my eyes to how many blessings I have. In this country, you can’t escape the poor and their troubles. There are disabled men, women, and children begging in the middle of traffic and outside of stores everywhere you go. I was brought to tears every time we went outside. So I have to say that I am fully aware that my experience of Pakistan was through very privileged forms; it’s not that way for every citizen there. And yet I still saw a certain comfort in most people’s eyes; they seemed content and confident. And man, do they know how to drive! From what I saw in the three weeks there, I wouldn’t be surprised if Pakistan had one of the lowest accident rates! Okay, it’s probably not true, but it’s as if they all have an innate sense of how to drive in such crowded areas. I didn’t see any accidents, or near accidents even. In fact, the one “accident” I did see was the one we caused haha! We were parked in a very tiny alleyway and a guy on a motorcycle tried to get past, and we accidentally opened our car door at that moment and knocked him into the wall. He literally just dusted himself off, picked up his bike, and kept on going. So the great thing is that even if somebody does get into an accident, nobody cares. Nobody has car insurance so that probably makes all the difference 😉
Basically, life in Pakistan is kind of care-free sometimes and definitely worth seeing. I hope the pictures and the history inspire you to visit one day!